To a certain male friend,
You’re constantly on with me then off with me. You make out like you are there for me, yet you only approach me either every few weeks, or every few months. I wish I had any idea why you do this. If you don’t actually want to hang out with me, then by all means, let me know. What’s the point in me being your friend when you constantly blow hot and cold with me? You’re too confusing. Most of my other friends don’t treat me in such a disposable way. Thankgod. I don’t get what you want from me then. At least make it obvious or leave me alone. What’s the reason you treat me like this? You SEEM to want to help me out, but if you’re not serious about spending time with me, I will end the friendship much sooner, for both of our sakes. So either let me know why you do this to me, or just don’t bother talking to me anymore. It’s not as if there’s any problem you’re hiding from me, so I really don’t understand. Maybe this is why I never reach out to you. Whatever. Good luck with your life.
I’m in a similar situation right now, but in my case I’m the ‘jerk’. I’m really sorry if you feel this way. Maybe this guy is just trying to sort something. I’d like to apologize on his behalf.
If this is you, K, I just want to say sorry. I feel really awkward around you because I have a huge crush on you. I hope we can stay friends, I promise to make up for everything. I REALLY DO LOVE YOU. See you at work.