I debated whether to send this as I am not looking to further any
negativity with you both, BUT your email reply was not cool and you
obviously have zero care in what YOU say, how you say and do things and it’s subsequent
A simple email without game playing would have counted for so much!
Why is this so hard to do?
You said ‘same here’ that you didn’t deliberately use lower case for the email BUT we all know this is just not true. You both are way more transparent than you think.
I don’t know what’s sadder or more lame; you believing your own story or
that you believe we’ll believe your stories!
I’ve known since you were 14. You made up fake coffee cards to get free
coffees, used cones illegally to save parking at uni and you have been
caught out in blatant lies over the years.
Not cool to be dishonest. You both embellish so easily to cover your tracks. You constantly change your story, assume
the worst in people and drag out stuff.
You reply just shows that not much has changed in over 4 years. FOUR
years and you’re still being petty and immature in how you respond and act
with your own brother and myself.
You don’t care what you say.
Why not a real email with an intention to connect?
Obviously you don’t want to for whatever reason. All under the guise of,
‘you’re so mean to priti.’
It was a complete turn off. J didn’t really care if you guys
connected. He knows he can drop in and see you etc and he had no
interest in all four of us getting together.
It was me. I feel for your parents. It’s obvious it pains them that
their sons and daughters in laws don’t get along. Dad was in tears last
time we all talked about this stuff. He doesn’t even get to have
everyone together for his birthday.
Obviously this is not a concern to you or you would have reached out years ago.
Your mum told J to make the first move as she basically said she
knew you wouldn’t as you were too immature to do so.
Oh well! Not my family. I’m super close to my big family and you
guys are not nice people to interact with/nor my family.
No matter what you do in life, you’re the guy that can’t get his sh*t
together to have a relationship with his brother. Your problem.
No effort on Priti’s part to reach out to me personally to attempt to fix things.
I’m sure it was her idea to use lower case in your reply, am i right?
You told J about lower cases being used for your name years ago and priti getting offended. That’s why I emailed back to clarify in case you both got offended. Anything we say and do is up for offense.
FYI, Amanda (our past VA) wrote pretty much 90%
of those emails from ‘us’ to you. Not much can be done about all that
now so no point in pointing fingers….