• dont pull the victim card, im begging you

    by  • June 4, 2018 • * Safe for Work *, Cheating • 0 Comments

    Dear Sam,
    when i found out about you and Henry, i was shocked at first, then upset, then angry- normal emotions when you find out your long term boyfriend (and best friend since i was 11) cheats on you, and then lies about it for months.
    when i spoke to you, i could kind of see your side, he lied to you too- fair enough- but that still doesn’t give you the right to tell me who i can and cant tell, at the end of the day you still got with someone in a relationship with one of your friends, and the only victim here is me.
    when you find out I’ve told some MUTUAL friends about it, its not your place to start calling me a snake and try to ruin all my friendships. if you are that upset by your friends knowing what kind of a person you are, then why did you do it in the first place? but because you have tried to turn them on me i am left with no one. my close friends are too scared to take my side, i cant tell my family about this, and no one else really knows what happened, and i don’t want to have to explain it to some vague friend just to feel like i have someone. at the moment, the only person who’s actually caring about me is my ex. how does that look to others? how do you think it makes me feel?
    once again you have turned all the attention on to you, when i needed it. when i needed to feel like everyone was there for me. but you had to ruin that as well.
    this whole situation is too much for me to cope with right now. and I’m really struggling. so cheers for that

    – you know exactly who.

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