• Tears in your eyes

    by  • May 16, 2018 • * Safe for Work *, To You • 5 Comments

    I know what was and has been felt affected you deeply as well. You already know it’s mutally felt. You said I should tell you but, well I thought I was doing what you wanted… because you love her, she loves you, it wouldn’t be fair of me to interfere. I hope you understand my silence.

    5 Responses to Tears in your eyes

    1. Relatable
      May 16, 2018 at 11:47 am

      I can totally relate to this. Thanks for sharing.

    2. A
      May 17, 2018 at 7:03 am

      How do you know if they are really in love? How do you know they arent in love with you?

      • She knows
        June 4, 2018 at 8:16 pm

        He loves her and she knows it. She should stop interfering.

    3. Relationship
      May 17, 2018 at 7:11 am

      I did the same too embraced silence giving up my lifeline.

    4. Fair
      June 3, 2018 at 11:43 pm

      @author Thank you for posting this.

      My gut tells me you did already interfere in the past. “I know what was and has been felt affected you deeply as well.” You knew he was in love with her.

      Yeah we all have made mistakes .Intentionally or un-intentionally. Regardless.That is the past and much respect to you for stepping aside and doing the right thing moving forward.

      Respecting him and her and most of all Respecting YOURSELF to let go of him. Lying to yourself that he doesn’t love her. I’ve been there and sure I broke them up. Poor girl, she really thought she did something wrong. No, I was wrong and was jealous and selfish because I had my chance first .Yes, I have interfered before. The fair thing to do was to remove myself and STOP interfering in what I knew was and always will be. He was in love with her and any amount of interfering would NEVER change that.

      You can’t stop Karma, I got what I served up and someone “Interfered” in-between me and the love of my life. He doesn’t know that i know about the 3rd party interference. He wasn’t fair and being honest with her either, She knows this, he knows this, all their friends and family too. If he truly loved her, then he would tell everyone . Everyone would know about her instead of keeping her a secret. He let everyone know I was his girlfriend. I wasn’t a secret, everyone knew that and said yes, she is my girlfriend he was in a relationship and in love with me and it was and is mutual. There is a difference between privacy and secrecy.

      Respect yourself and be fair to yourself to let go right way, especially if you “interfered” in the past. Hope you get some peace for you both and don’t ghost him. Thats not what anyone would want, who wants that? Forgive yourself. Love yourself to move forward. If you don’t, then you would not be fair. You would be interfering.

      Wishing you fairness. Good luck.

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