It’s easy to judge people on here, or online in general. Please be thoughtful in your comments because you are only getting a small part of the picture. People are expressing themselves, good and bad, because life includes both sides, and all people are a mixture of both. Some of them are hurting or have gone through things you can’t begin to understand. Others are happy, in love, sharing creativity… what do you get out of bringing them down?
If you wrote a letter and received a condescending or condemning comment, don’t let it get to you. You’re an amazing person and your words matter.
If you responded in an unhelpful way to someone, why are you even wasting your time reading these letters? You certainly have gone through things yourself, and there are people here who would be understanding towards you, some of the same ones you are dismissing.
In life, everyone gets their turn. I hope that when it’s yours you are loved and supported.