.. I have now experienced this three times, not particularly looking for it or trying to make it happen but more by reflecting on the situation and seeing that it falls within my theory,
When a man believes that there is even the smallest chance of having sex with you = he’s nice, pleasant, has manners, communicates with you, and presents to you the the best version of himself ….except it’s a facade.
When a man realises that there is zero percent chance of having sex with you = you get the real guy. He’s no longer nice nor pleasant. Manners? What manners?… there is no communication or it is quite short and he becomes the rude obnoxious guy.
I don’t understand why the men i’ve met that fall into this category just aren’t themselves without the facade. Be you, if you have manners, use them whether you are going to get sex or not; communicate because it is just respectful doesn’t matter who you are dealing with and there is no reason to be flat out rude. Maybe that’s just the immaturity coming through and the equivalent of throwing a tantrum because you aren’t getting what you want.
…. clearly I haven’t found the right man yet…..whereever you are, whoever you are, I’ll be ready to meet you soon.