I live in the real world. Believing everything you hear and judging people based on unknown facts is assuming. Giving the perception that you are a good person and judging others for being disrespectful when you turn around and be disrespectful is a double standard.
If I believed everything they said about you and didn’t give you a chance, what would that have said about me? Instead I defended you when you were not there to defend yourself. I watched you shine, giving me love and feeling the safety you have never felt before. What we were together was real. Everyone saw how happy you and I were and it showed and it was real. It is Special and real for our friends and family to see and watch.
How you handled the break-up was real. The actions you took were real. A, is that really who you are or did or want to be? I’m asking because I don’t want to assume anything. It would not be fair to judge you for one mistake that you never meant to happen.
No one is perfect and people make mistakes. In reality, people don’t intentionally hurt themselves or hurt others. If a person tells you that you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t. (Louis CK).
Do you want to talk about what happened? I am open to talking about it. Checkmate.