• Why did he…

    by  • June 28, 2017 • * Safe for Work *, Advice • 9 Comments

    Long story short. Affair with my boss. Lasted a few weeks.

    Why did he look into my eyes so deeply if he was just using me? Or did it mean something?

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    9 Responses to Why did he…

    1. Depends
      June 29, 2017 at 9:41 am

      Is he married???




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      • Me
        June 30, 2017 at 12:49 am

        He was engaged at the time. Got married a few weeks later.




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        • Depends
          July 2, 2017 at 5:36 pm

          So you knew he was engaged, and the only thing that bothers you about that is you feel like YOU were deceived? No remorse or apologies? Not one thought about his future wife?

          He LIED to you. Boo hoo.you get it now?




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    2. Bosses and power games
      June 29, 2017 at 2:51 pm

      He wanted something and he did what he thought he needed to do to get it… He got it. End of story. If he is older than you – he knows how young women think. They will cave at the first mention of ‘love’. I doubt this is the first time he has done it either. Why don’t you report him? the only way men in positions of power are going to stop lying and using their positions with vulnerable women are if the women start reporting their arses and standing up for themselves. Fight fire with fire. And also stop believing everything a man says to you when sex is the end game. Be sure of their intentions – unless of course you don’t mind casual sex – which is OK. The only time it isn’t OK is when one thinks they aren’t having casual sex and the other one IS having casual sex but is doing so under false ‘love’ pretences. Casual sex between two adults should be a truthful transaction ie ‘ Let’s fuck and be buddies but I don’t love you and don’t want a relationship’ – “ok, sure”……. IF it wasn’t that – then he used his position of power and you should report him.




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    3. Blahblah blee blu
      June 30, 2017 at 3:36 pm

      Some men just know how to get the naive girls to fall for the oldest trick




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      • And.
        July 6, 2017 at 2:08 pm

        And some REAL men wouldn’t dream of lying or deceiving in order to get a naive girl to fall for their ‘tricks’. REAL men don’t use tricks on young naive girls. But there are hardly any real men left. We live in a world of porn and using people for what they can get. We are not living in interesting times – we have officially entered ‘disgusting times’. Girls who believe their worth is in their tits and arses and men who see girls as worthless for anything but their tits and arses. And so called men who take advantage of every situation and young girl they can regardless of how it will leave her feeling and do to her life and outlook. Men are damaging – but #notallmen, right?




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    4. @author
      July 2, 2017 at 6:24 am

      Really what matters is what your mind and self protection will allow you believe it was. I’ve found throughout life that open communication works better that self assumptions. Self assumption can be a way to run and an excuse to not communicate. Nothing wrong with it when protecting yourself, but I wouldn’t expect to find the answers to your questions on this site. I guess that’s the battle you would have to chose to fight within yourself i.e. self assume or open up and face fear. No one can do that for you.

      If this is you and you have found someone who looks into you and you like him, I am happy for you and hope the best. It means your living life and moving forward. I’ve always above anything wish you happiness. That’s why I backed your decision to not keep in touch with me, because you do deserve happiness and if I couldn’t provide you that, then you ghosting me was the right decision. No matter how bad I wanted to fight against that decision of yours.

      Your cheerleader! Love you




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    5. Just me
      July 5, 2017 at 10:24 am

      Tell his wife!




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    6. long opinion short
      July 10, 2017 at 4:51 am

      He got what he needed at that moment in time. Nothing more nothing less.




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