Letter thing. I guess I write about what’s on my mind and then strangers without problems can give me advice? Here goes it then.
I’m a guy so I am bad at trying to say what I feel, but I’m needing advice. I have nothing to lose. Just realised I have lost the one person I truly love.
So it’s been awhile since the break up. Its been tough. The woman I speak of has no idea how I feel about her. She’s the one that left me. She left for reasons that make sense, but I have found myself hanging on to her returning. I am guilty of pleasure thoughts of her. I had fallen into a habit of hoping of her coming back to me and fantasy thoughts of sort. I do have women who show interest in me. I haven’t been with another since my breakup.
Here’s where I need advice kind strangers. Do you think being with another woman would help me move on like the ex wants me to? What if I am honest with whom I would be with that they are a rebound of sorts? Who knows maybe it could turn into a positive relationship? All I know is I realize I can’t keep hoping for someone to return when they keep making it clear their heart belong to someone else. If the ex ever wanted to come back she could. I would welcome her back even if she wanted to just be friends. I hope I don’t sound heartless, but at this point it doesn’t matter.
Please only people who really want to help respond to this. I really am sincerely in a bind and need advice. I’m not getting any younger and I love living life. I just need help getting started at it.