Wow, “Carabear”, posting the five relationship rules that you have never followed yourself! How does a cheating whore like you look yourself in the mirror? Wonder how many guys you are currently flirting with? Ever shared the truth with your poor current husband? Not likely I am guessing. Maybe someone should. Maybe R. P. can assist. Have fun having it all figured out. It is entertaining, though nauseating to watch for the rest of us. Your life tips are SO deep and well thought out for someone who in every scenario, chooses herself over all others.