It is an idea. It is fantasy. It’s fiction.
It’s desire. It’s longing. It’s putting another person above all others and saying you I ‘love’ you. That is selfish, because that ‘love’ is self serving and comes with a set of conditions.
‘Love’ is the part of us that chains us to another being, it is a symptom of our makeup because our psychologies have not evolved past the chains that bear us deep to another for the sake of procreation.
‘Love’ is not needed in this way when we have contraception. We don’t need to be chained to anybody, we don’t need to give in to the useless parts of our brains that hold onto dreams and fantasies for the sake of it.
No one will EVER love you more than you can. So DON’T be stupid enough to love anybody more than yourself.
I did. I didn’t know it at the time, but slowly and surely every time I sacrificed myself care for the sake of another human being. DON”T DO IT.
If he’s not with you, if she’s not with you it’s because they don’t want you. That’s all. Doesn’t matter if you did this, or she did that or he did that. That’s the answer. No matter what he says or said. No matter what what she says or said.
He blamed me, made out like he was hurt. NO! He wasn’t, he just didn’t want me.
And sometimes, because of this fiction we made out for ourselves, this collective psychosis that is ‘love’ the object of our affection throws us away because they don’t want us anymore, more so because we don’t give them that feeling of ‘love’ for us.
We live in a capitalist pig dog age.
Reader, do yourself a favor, if and when a man or a woman screams at you like your some faulty computer, who failed to service, and throws you away like you’re nothing, STOP CARING. DO NOT CARE! I AM SERIOUS!
I have let ‘love’ wreck my life and I speak from a place of knowledge, if only you knew what ‘love’ has done to me.
Whoever he is, whoever she is, If he or she is not there to listen to your words, so that you have to write on a website for everyone else in the WORLD to see then GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN.
There’s nothing left of me and I’m living in yesteryear because all my heart, soul and spirit are too broken to move on and now there is nothing.
That is what ‘love’ has done to me.