Take my advice. Never stop dating your wife. Especially if she is a completely selfless person. If she pours herself into you and your family and home and her career and rarely asks for anything, remember those rarely asked for things really matter to her. Make it your mission to provide them. Please.
If you don’t, you leave the line open for another to provide her what she wants. When someone takes on that responsibility out of kindness, everything gets twisted. She them believes that he, this other man, loves her enough to make her happy. If another man gives up his chair for her so she doesn’t have to stand while you sit comfortably, you’ve got a problem. If she asks you to pick something up while you are out and you completely forget, but come back with a treat for yourself, you are sending the message that she means nothing to you. If your wife cries herself to sleep at night and you are wondering why, maybe you should make yourself a bit more aware of her wants and needs. If you feel jealous of attention she gives to another man, ask yourself if you are really deserving of her affections. Watch how he treats her and then you, her husband, treat her better.
-I love you, but I FEEL love from him, so tell me what I should do?