• 6 Responses to ?

    1. Me to you
      December 15, 2016 at 9:23 am

      Back then, I just needed to know how you felt, it would have changed our lives completely.
      Neither of us dared to communicate. Instead, doubt and fear won.

    2. yeah
      December 16, 2016 at 6:25 am

      Doubt and fear were life savers as I learned later.

    3. Someone
      December 17, 2016 at 10:09 am

      How many times must you hear that we can’t always control who we love? I wish I didn’t love them.

    4. Me to yeah
      December 17, 2016 at 10:24 pm

      Life savers, how so? What have you learned?

    5. yeah
      December 19, 2016 at 8:50 am

      Doubt and fear had their reason. Opening up was quite foolish and didn’t do me well every time I did. I have learned to trust my instincts.

    6. @yeah
      December 22, 2016 at 1:21 pm

      I agree in the fact the person we open up to needs to not need to hear our past dilemma’s to a point. For many of us have or had trauma that affected us They may have their plate full emotionslly already. I now have learmt to say NO to friends who try & unload their repeated negativity/issues. I dont have the strength or time to be around others like this anymore. It only drains me & takes me to a place I’m never visiyimg again. For close froends & family yes I’ll always will be to an extent. I will & must look after my emotional well beung first. Love thyself. Im still unacustomed in saying that out loud.Yes in explaining why we act so. No in the traumatic events that we know within ourselves we haven’t dealt/overcome yet. That’s where we should willingly go & see a counselor/pschologist or equivalent. WOW we chose which path we take. Happy days.

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