In the days leading up to my husband proposing to me, he will say he decided to propose after I got him the tattoo gift certificate, but I remember the conversations where I pleaded to know that our daughter and myself would be secure after we made the decision to do this together.
Before that even I remember the terrible fear after his graduation and move to live with his parents states away, his looking for jobs all over. I was afraid because …to be left behind again seemed like a cruel fate.
We talked about it. He’d said even though he was looking for jobs all over he intended to continue our relationship….and I couldn’t see how that would be good for me. So much of our relationship
Was already carried out over distances that were continuously expanding.