• lets

    by  • October 18, 2016 • * Safe for Work *, To You • 4 Comments

    Lighten up a bit. If we were to be together, what would you picture it like. What are things we would do. What are some routines we would have.

    Wanna play? Hu? Oh yeah?

    Yours Truly,

    4 Responses to lets

    1. if you were them
      October 18, 2016 at 2:22 pm

      An emotional rollercoaster. Plenty of pain. Fights would be our routine.

    2. author
      October 18, 2016 at 5:05 pm

      Excuse the periods where the question marks go. 😉

    3. Me
      October 18, 2016 at 10:55 pm

      Well, since you asked, I have thought about this quite a bit. Ive come us with some ideas that I think would keep our relationship strong even years down the road.

      Even with our busy schedules, once a week, no matter what, its date night. We could go to the movies or try a new restaurant, anything. But no excuses, one night a week we devote to just spending time alone together.

      I think we should take turn picking things to do together. Maybe I pick a new show for us to watch, then you pick a book for us to read. Youve already broadened my interests in a good way, music being one example, and theres nothing I wouldnt enjoy trying if I could do it with you. Plus wed always have new and interesting things to talk about.

      Every Sunday morning I want to make a nice breakfast for you (and our kids?). I hope you like chocolate chip pancakes 🙂

      I also think there are some things we should do every year, like:

      Travel somewhere we’ve never been. International would be ideal, but so long as we were experiencing a new place together every year.

      I believe in constant self improvement and learning, so I think we should pick a new skill or hobby to do together every year. Maybe one year cooking, and we can take classes and practice new recipes together. Maybe the next year dancing, and we take a class and get really good at it. Maybe youd be interested in me teaching you tennis? Or you could teach me more about swimming? The possibilities are endless, but I think its a good way to grow as individuals while also growing together as a couple.

      I also think that every year we should have Valentines Weekend. (Get rid of the kids?) and get a hotel for the weekend and just stay in and order room service and enjoy each other as much as we can. I for one know that I would like that!

      What about you? Its your turn.

    4. if you were them
      October 19, 2016 at 11:00 am

      Sorry for the sarcasm. I let my emotions get the best of me.

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