• so desparate, but also funny

    by  • March 19, 2016 • * Safe for Work *, Co-Worker • 7 Comments

    One of my friends was over the other day..somehow your name came up. Well, not exactly your name..it was more like…what’s the streetwalking, cheating slut up to these days? Is she even still married? To which I replied, not sure.. So she looked up your profile, and, sure enough.. The same manly face, desperately trying to hide your black facial hair, (mustache and now beard) looked back at us. Yuk. You look like a female impersonator. We couldn’t help but laugh.. Maybe the people you cheat with, have gay fantasies that you fulfill..Your friends are VERY kind in their comments though. Hope you get the “boost” that you basically beg for with all the selfies. Guess you are still married..wonder how long it will last once he finds out.. Then again maybe you have some sort of messed up arrangement. Maybe he has someone on the side too. Do you think she is a whore like you, accepting money, and presents?

    7 Responses to so desparate, but also funny

    1. ns
      March 20, 2016 at 3:38 am

      Your insecurity makes me cringe.

    2. Hmmm
      March 21, 2016 at 2:32 pm

      So does that mean your husband had gay fantasies then?

      Wake up. You make yourself sound obsessed and bitter. How long has it been since all this shit went down? Why didn’t you tell when it happened?

      You posting threats in vain to feel some kind of control over her at this juncture is childish as fuck. Stop looking at hairlip on social media, it makes you seem like a crazy stalker.

    3. wow
      March 23, 2016 at 9:20 am

      Reading this post made me laugh. The comments in conjunction with references to cheating are almost always harsh and negative. Isn’t this site supposed to be about venting and then feeling better? Not sure if the author was cheated on, is even married, or is just laughing with a friend about some slutty ” lady” that they know of. Don’t we all know of some cheaters in life? She didn’t even say that she would tell.. Just that, he will eventually find out. It eventually comes out. Does that worry those of you who obviously relate to the,” cheating slut”? Guess it does. Oh, and , if it was written by someone who had been cheated on..guess they might be struggling with “insecurity”. Probably makes them still ” cringe”, too. As always you ” ladies” are So kind!!!

    4. @wow
      March 24, 2016 at 9:29 pm

      Because you are the author and the same person who wrote the six months letter about “telling” on their birthday. Some of these letters might as well have signatures.

      Your obsession with cheating and trying to insinuate we who comment identify with a cheater is getting old. (Happily married for 13 years here).

      If you want to feel secure in yourself, then start by not acting like an immature girl. The less you put out there to feel shitty about, the happier you’ll be.

    5. good advice
      April 4, 2016 at 7:50 am

      Some ” writers” on this site do seem to be troubled and broken.. The ones who have been betrayed in life should not seek any solace or understanding on this site. This site is meant for the passive/ aggressive folks that write letters pining for the one who they just can’t seem to catch a break and be with because it is forbidden or the wrong timing, or some other cliche phrase that is code word for already taken.. The best advice for those on the other side of that equation. Tell as soon as you find out. Don’t write about your anger here. You will be seen as immature, and insecure. You will be judged immediately. Rightly so, because you, yourself have joined in on the passive/ aggressive insanity. Stop putting stuff out to feel shitty about. Do something about it!! You will find no sympathy here. Instead go to betrayed wives club.com, to hear about women who understand your pain and read real facts about the prevalence of infidelity. It is true that nobody wants to talk about it, or think it can happen to them..until it does. Also, articles on the importance of complete honesty. Telling the other spouse is, showing them the respect they deserve, in order to make huge decisions in the marriage. If they don’t know there are problems, how can they work on them??

    6. Reader
      April 5, 2016 at 7:41 am

      The happiness deprived author on this portrays us a vivid picture of his/her mind and how they think. This is who they are.
      This does not define the individual they are writing about. The other person could be happily married for all we know and this is just a jealousy prompt. Now, since its written on here is it possible that the person they are writing to is here too? If you are ?
      Then here is what I think. You were in some sort of relationship with this author ? You ended it , fell out had a compromise of some sort?
      You hurt them ? Or they hurt you?
      You moved on and you dont care?
      They wrote this in the hope you will come across it and once you read this you would fell upset, angry discouraged ?

      For these people to be even checking up on you means they are taking time out of their lives to insult or offend you. Darling, man or woman 🙂 this shouldn’t touch the surface of your botherness 🙂
      It seems to me that your life has something they don’t? This is jealousy plain and obvious.

      To the author : Move on , the other person clearly has.
      This person holds some importance else you wouldn’t take time out to write such a long letter aboit them. Your character in the form of yoir words comes across vile and mean. Get a life of your own eh?

    7. lol
      April 5, 2016 at 1:55 pm

      Yoir words are so profound aboit this post! Clearly you have it all figured out. You are so wise. It is probably true that the author is not experiencing happiness at the moment. Your character in the form of yoir words comes across as dismissive and condescending, but have a nice life, eh!

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