If I do not hear from you by then, to explain your side of this, I will go to whoever I need to in order to hear some answers. Your husband, mother, or sister. I deserve to know the answers to all of my questions. I will no longer let you say that what happened, didn’t happen. You are NOT allowed to lie about this any longer! You have six whole months until you turn 45, to actually stop lying and take responsibility for once in your live.. You know my number.. And I still have his. He also deserves to know. No one in his shoes can say they wouldn’t want to hear the truth about their wife. Your call, or mine..