I’ve just realized I’m not an assertive person. Instead of going up to a person who’ve I’ve got issues with, I tell everyone else but them. For example, I’ve got this crush and instead of going to him face to face and telling him how I felt, I slipped a note with my number in it under his dorm room door, and he still hasn’t responded back. =/ I should’ve told him how I felt. And another example, I got really pissed off at my room mate, and instead of telling her face to face how I felt, I called my parents, went to my R.a, and went to a counciling service. When I should’ve gone to my room mate in the first place. Sigh* This is why I need to become assertive. So, I can face people and tell them what’s on my mind.