Thursday, October 08, 2015
I cannot wait until the hearing on Friday morning!! I’m fairly confident that your ridiculous domestic violence restraining order will be laughed out of court. While I am pretty sure you will lose your case (after all you are the crazy one), I don’t think the judge is going to kick you out. I’m pretty sure it will be referred to a different department at a later date. That said, I assume you will be returning to Joe’s house to live temporarily?
I need to make some things perfectly clear so there are no surprises from OPD. There is going to be some rule changes! You may not like me, but you will quit with your locking me out of the house, and calling the police. I want the remote to the BMW returned immediately. Do not try and tell me you don’t have it…I know you do. I left it out on the kitchen counter and you took it, it’s time to give it back. Please clean up your fucking clutter! If that is stuff you plan to take just to be a “peace” of shit to Joe, then put it in a box. Just get the clutter cleaned up. The one thing I want to be very clear about is you are no longer part of the household; you are at the very least a temporary guest. You will not block the garage door and deny me access to the truck. It’s a big driveway, find somewhere else to park! And I am going to strongly suggest that if you have any of Joe’s financial information, a credit card, bank checks, etc. that they be returned to Joe asap. Joe is not your source of income, and he will not be giving you a single penny. What he will be doing is prosecuting you for identity theft. I will be going over his credit card statements with a fine tooth comb and any unusual activity will be brought to his attention and disputed.
Now, I have a few things I want to get off of my chest. First of all, I am sick and tired of hearing through the rumor mill that I cheated with Joe. Do a little soul searching and be honest with yourself, the relationship had long been over. You launched your attack on me because you can’t face the fact that it’s time to put your big girl panties on and figure out how to make a living for yourself. You are not Joe’s problem or responsibility. You had 15 years to figure out how to make the relationship work and now the gig is up. Blame yourself for what you have lost. Your loss is my gain and I will not feel guilty for wanting to love him and agreeing to be his wife.
The sooner you realize that Joe does not love you or even want anything to do with you, the sooner you can get your head out of your ass and find somewhere else to live. As long as you continue to live here, we plan to keep moving forward with a legal eviction. It’s in your best interest to move out as quickly as possible. We will continue to have cameras set up and recording, and again I hate to burst your bubble, but Joe is (we are) not watching you. You are not special. Cameras keep people honest and there has not been a whole lot of that coming from you, therefore as a homeowner Joe has a right to protect his property. The BMW of yours sitting in the driveway needs to be removed unless this is your current transportation. Beginning on Monday, October 12th the car will incur storage fees of 16 dollars each day the car remains in the driveway. The ceramic pot with the ugly plant that is busted in the driveway needs to be disposed of. As long as you remain living in this house rent free you are expected to participate in the upkeep. I am not accustomed to living in filthy clutter and I have made plenty of sacrifices as it is. How you choose to live on your own is your business, but I am not going to tolerate you walking around like you are above doing housework.
Frankly, I don’t give two shits about what you think of me. Until you are able to grasp that you did this to your own life and not me, you won’t ever understand that I have never been a threat to you. I didn’t steal any of your personal belongings, clothing, or any other item. No disrespect but they are not my taste and would never want any of it anyhow. You purposefully inconvenienced Joe and I for all those months hoping you could drive a wedge between us. Joe repeated to me many of the ugly things you said about me in hopes that you could confuse him. I would constantly tell him, “Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor hell a furry like a woman scorned” ~ William Congreve Seems I called that one correctly!!
Honestly, I have had no ill feelings toward you other than pity. What has become of one’s life that they seek to destroy the very person who has been their provider? I just can’t wrap my head around why you would put so much time and energy into destroying Joe’s happiness. All of your issues, depression, drug addiction, and suicidal tendencies are your problems and yours alone. Don’t you think you have made Joe suffer long enough? Or is it one of those things where if you are not happy, no one else can be happy? That’s some pretty heavy shit to burden someone with, let alone not cooking or cleaning and meeting his most basic needs. It sounds and by all means appears to me that Joe was pretty fucking good to you. Explain to me why you think you are entitled to rob him of his personal possessions or his chance to be happy? If I may offer my humble opinion, as an outsider I observed two different friends of yours get all nervous and afraid of getting caught by you talking to me…I have never seen such consequences of friendship before in my life.
Having to live in the hostile environment you create was an experience I won’t soon forget. I got an up close and personal view of the person you really are, and it’s really very sad. I am not a trained mental health professional but you have all of the classic borderline personality disorder and sociopath traits in both your thinking and your actions. You have done some mean and evil shit yet show no remorse or regard. You have stolen a significant amount of gold belonging to Joe and still want more. The lies that come out of your mouth are just incredible. The level of skill you have in manipulation is not something that was picked up overnight, which tells me that your primary goal each day is to make sure you get what you want, no matter the cost. Prior to living with you I would often tell Joe that his grand-kids deserved to maintain a relationship with you and you with them. I have changed my mind and no longer feel that way. If they were my grand-kids, I would not let you get within ten miles of those kids. I believe in my soul that those kids are in danger of being emotionally abused by you. It takes a special kind of evil to invite the ex-husband and his fat ass greasy girlfriend into Joe’s house. It is a direct message that you do not care about what is best for those kids. You are far more focused on destroying a grandfather those kids love and adore. You clearly lack the skills needed to provide a nurturing environment. If Lindsey is smart she would take an order of protection against you from having any type of unsupervised contact with her children.
The reality of this unfortunate situation is that you were not satisfied with the offers made to you for moving out You want more, more, more and in the end I pray you end up with NOTHING. It’s time that you were on your way and find somebody else to burden your sorry and insignificant troubles upon.
Good luck with your future endeavors