• Sometimes…

    by  • September 28, 2015 • * Safe for Work *, To You • 4 Comments

    It’s not the hard times so much as the good times. Sure, I wanted you to be there to help me when I was down; but when I was up, that’s when I’ve always wanted you with me the most. Prom, graduation, new job, so many big moments in my life that I desperately wanted to make you a part of and that you seemed to have no interest in. That sucks. It’s like your wishes are always more important that mine, I don’t ever get what I want, I want to keep going and I don’t know if you feel the same way.

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    4 Responses to Sometimes…

    1. A
      September 28, 2015 at 4:16 pm

      Maybe this person does have interest in your life but doesn’t know how to be there for you. Maybe this person feels like your wishes are just important as theirs and they’re always supporting you indirectly.

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    2. @A
      September 29, 2015 at 8:19 pm

      Hmm…thats interesting. But I really dont think its that hard to be there for a person you care about. I once received some advice from a very wise person I greatly respect, that “the best gift you can give to someone you care about is your time, your attention, and your love.” Its really simple but so true. I wanted my person’s time, attention, and love, when I went through these meaningful events because they would have been so much more special for me and my memories of these times would be so much happier than “I wish they were there”. Maybe that sounds selfish, but the reasons why my person wasnt there for me at those times are as well




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    3. A @Author
      October 3, 2015 at 11:05 am

      Well, maybe this person feels like you weren’t there for them at all either? Maybe they feel exactly like you do, maybe they feel like you were being selfish. It’s not too late to create new memories and share new moments with each other. You could be there for each other in the future.

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    4. A @Author Also...
      October 3, 2015 at 11:16 am

      Also, maybe it *is* hard to be there for someone who you care about. Maybe there were extenuating circumstances like strict parents, social anxiety, and lack of self-confidence in the past. Maybe a lot has changed and the person didn’t want to get too close to you too fast because hey wanted a relationship that would last forever. Just some things to think about, I don’t think you should give-up on this person…They most-likely haven’t given up on you…

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