I met your husband earlier this week at Happy Hour with friends while he was here on business and had no idea that he was married. When we met, he assured me that he was 100% unattached and I took him at his word. It was only after date #3 when we slept together that some of the things he said didn’t add up so I decided to do a little sleuthing on social media.
He’d given me his business card so I searched for his name and city on Facebook. Once I stumbled upon his profile, complete with a lovely picture of you and your family of four, I was one part livid and one part sick to my stomach.
My girlfriends have encouraged me to put him on blast or tell you about how I met your husband. Part of me would like to rip him a new one but since that could trigger a world of hurt for you and your family, I’ve chosen instead to sever all ties and go away quietly.
I can’t unring this bell or undo the potential damage that I contributed to and for that I feel terrible. I know what it’s like to be cheated on and I would never want to be the one doing the cheating. I only wish I’d asked more questions earlier or sleuthed sooner so that I could’ve cut ties before taking things further.
I have deleted all of his contact information and blocked his cell number. You will never hear from me again. I hope his conscience gets the better of him and he decides to do right by you. As for me, I will be that much more cautious and careful when someone seems too good to be true.