That’s what you said upon first conversating with me. I provided a simple answer although short. Honestly as shocked as you seemed that was how shocked i was that you asked. It instantly allowed me to see the person in front of me. A person that obviously thinks that getting engaged married buy the dog then the house…typical cookie cutter life…is the norm and being single is negative and there is something wrong. I was shocked because my view is opposite yours.
So i guess let me further explain. I am not impressed. When i am it is very rare. I realize the pool of choice is smaller with age. Although some bend under pressure in fear of being alone and have to accept less than desired or deserved, i would rather be alone.
For the last at least 5 years this is a run down:
We meet. We talk. We hang. We date. Sounds good right?
Heres why its not. Guys that learn me. Study me. Become me.
I want to date a man that is his own person. A guy with character i like. One that might like a certain sport but not cheerleading my team because his fave team is my teams deathmatch. A man that knows my color is green. The fact i hate flowers except tulips but doesnt try to impress me with some because flowers remind me of funeral homes and death. One that knows i might write you a poem or song but i will never give you a hallmark card with any present.
Basically i’m not impressed because so far men have thought that mirroring me gets them further. They are not smart enough to realize that im looking for the guy that is himself. Im not trying to date myself. They are trying to hook a fish meanwhile i was so bored fishing i fell asleep in the boat.
Would you want to marry and have kids with that?
I have hope. I refuse to settle. I guess if hes out there and i meet him then you wont have to ask such questions. Until then i would rather be single.