• Your silence …

    by  • March 25, 2015 • * Safe for Work *, Heartbreak • 3 Comments

    … speaks volumes. Ok so you’re away and yes I do hope you are having a good time. But why does you having a good time have to include you totally cutting contact with me? I wouldn’t mind so much if you were off all social media/messaging sites but I’ve seen you online every day on the other site I know you use (though not to communicate with me). Have you got any idea how much you’re hurting me? Do you care? You must know it will be upsetting me but you’re doing it anyway and I don’t understand why or what I’ve done to deserve it. Why are you doing it? I feel like you must just not care about me at all, or my feelings. I certainly haven’t got any evidence to the contrary at the moment. We only ever communicate on the one site so your total absence from that site really only speaks one message … that there are people in your life you want to communicate with this week but I’m not one of them. I wish I meant more to you than I obviously do … because you mean such a lot to me I could never purposefully ignore you like this and I wouldn’t ever want to either as I miss you too much. Maybe it’s time I should let this/us go 🙁

    3 Responses to Your silence …

    1. Anonymously
      March 29, 2015 at 12:36 am

      Don’t let go. Hold on tight and never let go. Time will tell all. Be strong. Remember what you are fighting for. ~O.Prime

    2. You know
      March 29, 2015 at 7:18 pm

      A lot of these stories are so similar. We are not so unique after all. We all experience similar situations.

      I wonder. Are you a woman or a man?

    3. Author
      March 30, 2015 at 12:43 am

      @annonymously – thankyou, thing is I’m not sure whether there is anything worth me fighting for
      @you know – I’m a woman. You’re right about similarities in situations, I’m always amazed how many letters on here seem to relate to identical situations to mine. I’ve often advised others that honesty about your feelings is always the best policy, it doesn’t seem so easy though when it’s yourself with all the questions you aren’t brave enough to ask for fear of being hurt or not loved in return

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