• Judd will know

    by  • March 24, 2015 • * Safe for Work *, Cheating • 7 Comments

    Dear totally fake sad less than human thing.. I try not to think about you. My husband and I have attended therapy sessions due to his affair with you and others who are just as morally deficient as you seem to be. It is helping me to feel better and also to know that I shouldn’t feel bad about wanting to talk to you and to your current husband. I know that I deserve this and that HE, (Judd) also deserves this. It is not about revenge at this point. It is about doing the right thing and finally being honest with those who you have willfully disrespected and disregarded. You made your choices to engage in a sexual affair with someone who was married with young children and also to use and supply drugs to him. Your husband has to right to know how he has been treated. I have yet to speak with ANYONE who would not want to know if their spouse was cheating on them. I know first hand that things can’t change without honesty. I think it will be hard for him to accept your cruelty,( it has been hard for me to comprehend) but he deserves to know. Especially if there is now yet another infidelity to deal with. My husband informed me of your many other partners. He suspected that there was someone else after him. All has been shared with work, colleagues,etc… In short everyone now knows your sex life, and how you chose to behave AT WORK… The doctor who you have in common is the one who did the STD tests that I insisted on because no protection was used.. Your husband will soon also know.

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    7 Responses to Judd will know

    1. gonna git a handle...
      March 25, 2015 at 9:44 am

      on it.” Like some ridiculous fake Christian, incredibly whorish,streetwalking, pathological lair, drug dealing, “lady”, used to give advice to do…




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    2. what kind of name is Judd?
      March 27, 2015 at 1:58 pm

      Sounds kind of hillbilly-esque…




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    3. Jason
      March 30, 2015 at 6:08 am

      With all you have been through and what is yet to come you have one, just one question to answer. Will I ever be able to overcome this betrayal? That is the bottom line. Not what is good for the children, not the financial aspect, not the social stigma of a marraige gone bad. This is not just about her, or him, but all the concerned people involved. What was missing in the marraige? Why did he feel justified in his betrayal of you? He did, because he went through with it. I speak from 3, going on 4 years in repairing the damage I caused by allowing a very dark time in my life to become a very, very dark time in my marraige. I did not have a physical relationship and looking back I am really glad that did not happen, but the emotional affair, the desisions I made were so harmful and hurtful that the phycality took a back seat to the pain. I have never blamed my wife for any aspect of this and would have gladly had my fingers fall off before hitting the send key that began the pain I caused her. We are thirty years together and she has always had self image doubts and jealously issues in our earier days that I only concreted by thoughtlessness. I work everyday at rebuilding her trust and it is a tough road I have laid out but one I will walk because she is my soulmate and worthy of my efforts. Will we survive? I don’t know. It’s like an alcholic drying out, one day at a time. Will you and Judd make it? It is wholly dependent on what was the base of the marraige to begin with. If the relationship was based in a true connection of spirit and soul, then yes it should survive and is worth the sacrifice on both sides that will be called upon to set some sort of future course for you guys. It is my feeling you must abandon the disgust and hate wihin you before any healing can begin. As hard as it to comprehend, she means nothing to the equation and destroying her husbands life is not for you to decide. Karma will deal with that, as it will with you if you can’t let go of a feeling of vengance. It is a waste of the valuable time you have been given, as would a revenge screw would leave you in worst shape then before. The human mind sometimes puts 2 and 2 together and gets 8, becuse it is clouded with the negatives we are bombarded with daily. I am sure you have a beautiful family and are someone elses fantasy lover, so take stock in your own positives, the gifts we are all given. Don’t dispose of them or overlook them becuse you are rage filled and cannot see light at the tunnels end. All you feel now will be different a month and then a year from now. Just answer that question as soon as you can, “CAN I OVERCOME THIS BETRAYAL OF MY TRUST IN HIM? Can I see the day I will forgive this gross mistreatment and have a marraige with this man again? Will I forever hate him? Do not waste your and your childrens lives seething in hate, it is an incredible loss for us all. You may the one that offers comfort to some future someone in pain, changing their life and countless others down this road we walk. Your children may cure some horrible affliction or prevent starvation or solve clean water needs in some stricken land. All pipe dreams? These answers must come from somewhere, why not you? If I could hug you and apologize for the incredible stupidity the male gender displays sometimes, I would. I have written here before about how we are all the artists or authors of our own landscapes and stories and we alone can impact the collective of all our souls by the chapters we pen. Look within to find that spirit of a just a short time ago and honestly answer what you need to ask. Give your life and your childrens lives the honor they deserve. Shed the hate and free the shackles it comes equipped with. Know that people are frail and imperfect and yet capable of great things in their short time alloted. I wish I could take your pain and dissapointment and lost feeling and suffer for you. I will pick up the bonds that hold you as soon as you set them aside. I love you as all who have felt pain or caused it and seek to heal.




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    4. std queen
      April 9, 2015 at 4:33 pm

      Soon her husband will know the WHOLE story…




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    5. Jason
      April 10, 2015 at 9:05 am

      If this is the wife….good luck with that…say good-bye to your marriage as well. Hell hath no fury? You will reap the harvest you sow. No Daddy, except twice a month. Just end your pain..Divorce him, take half and leave or toss him out. What are you gaining by killing some other persons existence? Revenge? Great Idea, that always fixes the problem. Look, you and your husband, soon to be ex, have enough problems than this other c— that invaded your world. She is only a symptom of a disease, not the root cause. Men suck, I’m one and I agree, but if you think the fairer gender is any less flawed your nuttier than you come off. Don’t forgive him, that’s your prerogative and your choice, but don’t fake it. It is apparent you were hurt to your core, I get that, hell I did that and will never forgive myself for it. NO SEX but a betrayal all the same. I owned it and blamed nobody but me but you need to answer those previous questions and move the fuck on with your life. You will raise hostile kids filled with the same venom coursing through you. You will be a miserable bitch the rest of your life and trust no man. I pray for all the kids destroyed by this, not you fucking adults that should know better.

      JASON




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    6. world full of cheaters
      April 21, 2015 at 5:23 am

      Adults should know better..correct!




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    7. Sarah
      May 3, 2016 at 8:42 am

      Yeah right!




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