To the mother of His Children, the reason I have no respect for you is because you are the most undeserving person I know. Every day I watch my husband with my own child, he is the best dad she’s ever known. Her own father never calls or sees her, she only has my husband. Then there is you, who refuses to let him have that time with his own children because of absurd excuses you come up with. He’s not ready to be a father, well he sure is a great one to my child when he didn’t have to be . He needs to get his s*it together, we have a house together, decent jobs, and a room set up waiting for his children to be able to stay in it. You don’t know me, it’s been well over a year now. He needs to grow up and stop being so selfish, he is more grown up than you have ever proven to be and you prove your selfishness every day. They’re not ready to stay, that’s when they cry when you get ready to leave with them. See the thing is that you’re the one who needs to grow up, you’re the one who needs to stop being selfish, children aren’t pawns to be used against their father when things don’t go your way. At least they have a father who cares, they have a dad who wants to be there for them, but you won’t let him. Children need their dad. Children don’t need a bitter parent keeping them from having the relationship they deserve with the other. My only hope is that you grow up before it’s too late, see children are smart. They will begin to see the truth of why they don’t get to see their dad much, they will begin to realize who is really the one keeping them away. That is to say if they haven’t already begun to see.