Ahh. the gift of intuition. Sometimes I don’t need to talk to you or be near you to get a sense of your where you are at in life. No, I never used you and the thought of it speaks volumes of what you think about me. It is not who I am now or will ever be. Incredibly sad that this is even up for discussion. I can go on but it is pointless. As you know, I’m an advocate of communication. Definitely wasn’t a strong point in our relationship. We never talked about the issues we had with each other. Either the issue would end in a disagreement or you shut me out. My guess is that you formed your opinion and weren’t interested in hearing my side. One-sided relationships are doomed for failure. You’re smart ..you know this.