• Have you ever?

    by  • November 1, 2014 • * Safe for Work *, To You • 5 Comments

    Have you ever felt you had no other choice but to move on, yet still hold on to hope consciously or unconsciously? How has this affected you in the present?

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    5 Responses to Have you ever?

    1. Dee
      November 1, 2014 at 10:07 am

      I have done this in the past and holding on to hope was not good. The best thing to do is act questions. If you know there is no possibility the next thing to do is move on. At least you took a risk. It’s tough




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    2. I have
      November 1, 2014 at 10:23 am

      Major depression.




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    3. yes
      November 1, 2014 at 11:43 am

      Happened to me. I moved on with a great person and I was happy with them, but there was always this nagging thing from my past. I could never love my person the way I wanted to. I tried very long to ignore and was fighting against it. It’s a horrible situation. So, if I can give you any advice. Try to work things out with your person until you’re sure what you want. If you decide to end it, give yourself enough time to heal. Be honest with yourself and fair. The person you would move on with should get a real chance.




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    4. Oxymoron
      November 1, 2014 at 2:54 pm

      You can’t move on if you’re holding onto hope. Not possible. If you still are hoping against hope you are stuck, not moving on.




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    5. K.
      November 2, 2014 at 10:01 pm

      Hmm, I think you will only be able to “move on” to a certain extent. You may have moved on physically, but emotionally you still feel a sense of belonging to the other person. It is still affecting me now, but maybe that’s because I still see the other person on a regular basis (work commitments), and part of me is still lingering on hope. Haven’t found a way to bypass this yet (besides getting a new job), so can’t really advise you. Good luck, you will be okay. 🙂




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