Lately I’ve been able to think about you without feeling anger and hatred. It would be nice for our mutual friends if we could be civil to each other, but I don’t see how that can happen, and it keeps me from thinking too deeply about trying to repair some of the damage we’ve done to each other. You truly believe you are more intelligent, more fascinating, more enlightened, and all-around better than everyone you know. You are always in the right. Everything has to go your way and if it doesn’t, you tell everyone what needs to be done so that your peace of mind can be restored, and you don’t even question or care how they might feel. Then you seem honestly hurt, and baffled as to why people don’t want you around. How do you work things out with someone like that?