• The way you deal with things

    by  • May 16, 2014 • * Safe for Work *, Goodbye • 2 Comments

    I read a quote yesterday and it reminded me of you.

    “Saying goodbye is one of the most painful ways to solve a problem.”

    What’s even more painful? The part where you never said “goodbye”.

    I know I am healing. I know because I’m no longer depressed nor am I angry. I haven’t been here writing into the universe.

    I was able to finally delete all our correspondence because I realized they were just words. Words were all you gave me, even when you were here. I no longer feel stupid or hate myself because I believed in them. I’m proud of myself for having the guts to have been able to love that way at all.

    You’re never coming back. And I can’t regret not going there – not after the way you dealt with things and “problem solved”.

    You tried to tell me once that none of this was about me. I think that’s the one thing you left me with that I’ll choose to believe.

    Wherever you are, I want to give you the courtesy you could never give me:

    “Goodbye”. I really loved you once upon a time.

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    2 Responses to The way you deal with things

    1. .
      May 16, 2014 at 12:05 pm

      “I know I am healing. I know because I’m no longer depressed nor am I angry.”

      Sounds good! Keep going!


    2. anonymoys
      May 16, 2014 at 5:57 pm

      Often times there are things better left unsaid.



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