• Best friends …

    by  • April 30, 2014 • * Safe for Work *, Confusion • 3 Comments

    So … at what point is it not enough to remain married to your best friend? I’m asking because that is it, the passion has gone. Before it is suggested, no amount of counselling will fix this; been there done that. Do I live the rest of my life with my ‘best friend’ … I feel I need more than that, is that selfish?

    3 Responses to Best friends …

    1. not selfish exactly
      April 30, 2014 at 11:11 am

      But be aware that this happens a lot. Shoot, I know people who got married due to convenience and walked through the passion part from the beginning… Some are lucky and want to still ravage their partner years later, and some don’t. I suppose I wouldn’t want regrets and especially wouldn’t want to deprive my partner if they still felt passion and I didn’t.

    2. Not at all
      April 30, 2014 at 2:41 pm

      Best Friendship is the cornerstone of any great relationship…but theres gotta be more than just that. I relate alot to this post. i know im not giving my love what they need physically. I desperately want to. I just dont know how to tell them that ive never really felt like they desire me sexually. Thats the only problem with best friendship…you just enjoy spending time with your person so much that sometimes you overlook the fact that youre neglecting their most primal needs.

    3. Been there, done that.
      May 1, 2014 at 12:07 am

      It won’t get better, believe me. You will only make things worse for yourself (and them). The longer you stay the harder it gets to start anew.

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