People who make decisions for others for the supposed better good are selfish.
I’m not talking about people who leave others who “wouldn’t take a hint” either.
Oh, and those people who create negative situations by treating someone bad in hopes of getting THEM to break it off with YOU so YOUR hands “are clean”? Well, realize they did you a favor.
No words, thoughts, love or friendship will make them see what they don’t want to see.
Pity them, not yourself because they are far worse off than you.