who asked out the woman who has been treating me like shit for years.
You called her “cute”.
Are you fucking serious?
She is many, many things. “Cute” is not one of them. But you don’t know the real her and for your sake I hope you never have to get to know that side of her. She may seem charming now, but that’s a facade-that’s the side she shows when she wants people to like her, the side that makes her look innocent and friendly.
It’s so terrible. You seem like such a nice guy and in fact not the type of guy she seems like she’d every be interested in. Funny enough, you seem more like the type of guy that I’d be interested in. I can’t say that for sure, because I don’t hardly know you.
I hope you never get to know her other sides. The side that manipulates and cries, pretending she’s sorry when she’s just going to turn around and do the same thing over and over again. The side that threatens suicide when you don’t do just what she wants. The side that will blame you for everything-every single argument, every time you’ve ever been angry at her. The side that will tell you what an awful person you are for doing what you did and how you should be sorry. The side that will treat you like shit simply because she’s had a bad day. The side that will make subtle digs at you and make you feel like complete shit about any choice you make.
She can be nice. I’d know. I’ve known her all my life. But in the end, it will be just as it always is-she will be just as she always has. I hope to hell you’re smart enough to get out, because if you wind up marrying her I can only promise that she’ll make your life absolute hell.
I wish I could tell you this, but I’m just a stranger. You’d never believe me.