• The dark side of twin flames

    by  • March 19, 2014 • * Safe for Work * • 16 Comments

    We are MULTI-DIMENSIONAL BEINGS which means elements of us experienced the past, present and future exist at the same time we are doing this. When you’ve had that history, that energy history with someone, it is a very powerful connection, much more powerful than a connection with someone through normal attraction and personality. These connections are designed that way. Our souls chose to come down and chose to be born at this time, chose to experience the way we are experiencing in order to learn, in order to grow, but also there is a bigger picture here, in order to clear the bloodlines, cleanse out any physical, mental, emotional abnormalities, if you like or use that word, in our histories, family histories, also in the humanity, the old humanity’s template. Lots of us fall into that category, so again here is a bigger picture. When you have these high level soul connections, all this stuff comes up.

    As a soul, as a soul connectional, as a twin flame, one soul being, a masculine and feminine charge within two humans, you can experience not only this stuff coming up, but you can experience the more uncomfortable elements of what we call POLARITY. There is always being the opposites. There is always being like light and dark. And if you didn’t have the dark skied night, you have to see the stars and this kind of energy. The brighter the light, the more the shadows show up.
    You will never have a better OPPORTUNITY, than that of connecting with a high soul connection, such as a twin to see, learn from, embrace and clear elements of your own shadow, because everybody has what we would call a shadow and everybody has those repressed, suppressed, uncomfortable elements to them… These connections give you a huge opportunity, because of the amount of like they throw out. They really show up the shadow. And you have a golden opportunity to look at what’s coming up and to way through it… This can be very uncomfortable. You can really see the more extreme elements of not just in the personality of the person you are connecting with, but of the blood line, those characteristics of family history that can all come up…

    …He has had a twin flame experience, where he has had to embrace and she has had to embrace elements of the polarity, where the soul has chosen to experience different elements of human experience. So the soul might choose to experience the lightest of the light and the most joyest of love, but also the darkest of the dark, the depth of hell. And we all have elements of that experience within us, but never will it be more extreme if you experience than within a high soul connectional, than with a twin; because the intensity is very strong. And it may be that your soul chose for you to experience this separately. But also it can play out, that one of you can be experiencing very much the light and coming from the heart. One of you can be experiencing the darker elements, not coming from the heart. It can shift it can change according to what the soul is set up. But it can also shift in change according to outside interference.
    What do I mean be OUTSIDE INTERFERENCE? When you come into I high soul connection, it can trigger not only a monumental amount between the two of you, the masculine and the feminine, but it can trigger an enormous amount of stuff. All the people immediately around you, this would be your immediate family, parents, brothers, sisters, friends, work colleges to a lesser degree, but it triggers stuff in other people. So your existence then triggers up and brings up lots of stuff of those people, lots of stuff of their own baggage, their own judgments, their own feelings of what love is, what relationships should be, their own hang ups, all extremes and it can bring up a lot of jealousy, a lot of hostility, a lot of guilt, all these kinds of things.

    And people can interfere with these soul connections, these unions, either directly by voicing it or indirectly by MANIPULATION and CONTROL; sometimes quite actively trying to bring the union down. How can something as strong as the twin flame union over brought down… Those people could have a profound effect on the union and on the personalities of the souls, the twins connected. And they can be positive or very determining to it, very instrumental in bringing those unions down.

    Because everything is energy and the energy of that love and the energy of that life is very strong in twins, that you can also experience interference from outside of the twin flame union from more NEGATIVE DARKER ELEMENTS OF ENERGY. These would be such as entities for example. And you could say that that was random or you could say that the twins were actually targeted. You could say, why would they be targeted, why would they be vested interest in taking down a powerful loving connection? There would be a lot of vested interest in taking down a powerful loving connection, if you were not of the light and you were more of the darker elements. So there can be this polarity and this involvement. Not only the shadow side of the twin, not only having guilt in yourself, but also within the twin, but you can also have the polarity of the soul of one who takes on the darkness and one who takes on the light or that switches, but you can also have entities interfering, attachments interfering, NEGATIVE ENERGY INTERFERING, …

    16 Responses to The dark side of twin flames

    1. grasping at bullshit
      March 19, 2014 at 8:03 pm

      Sorry but I think this twin flame/soulmate stuff is shit. It’s just an excuse to stay “attached”. How do I know? Been there, done that, set fire to the connection for years. It’s unhealthy and fantasy. My “twin” was completely toxic for me.

      • April
        July 10, 2017 at 10:37 am

        You must be new.

    2. sheisnoneofyourbusiness
      March 19, 2014 at 8:19 pm

      I am supposed to believe this article because you are an expert on this subject matter?

    3. @grasping at bullshit
      March 20, 2014 at 12:50 am

      “My “twin” was completely toxic for me.” Which does not mean that it was not your “twin”. The brighter the light, the more the shadows show up…

    4. Agreed
      March 21, 2014 at 8:59 am

      ““My “twin” was completely toxic for me.” Which does not mean that it was not your “twin”. The brighter the light, the more the shadows show up…”

      From my personal experience I tend to agree.
      Bringing all our crap to surface so that we can overcome it is a beautiful thing imo.

    5. grasping
      March 21, 2014 at 10:50 am

      I stand firm. Toxic is not about bringing stuff to the surface in my situation. That I was always willing to participate in and did. They did not and were abusive. Good luck in your beliefs. I’ve learned via years of experience, patience, and kindness that it’s just not worth it if it’s detrimental to myself.

    6. Agreed
      March 25, 2014 at 5:56 pm

      Truth is we may never know the answers.
      From what I know of my own own experiences, and what ive read of others, its clearly a very personal journey.
      I wish u good luck also Grasping

    7. grasping
      March 26, 2014 at 9:51 pm

      @Agreed, I appreciate your kind thoughts.

    8. tfosm
      July 7, 2014 at 12:01 pm

      Please stop fooling people and destroying relationships and brainwashing people. You are absolutely not the expert and have no right to mis-lead people. Twin flame is such a whacked out concept and naïve and foolish people fall for it and destroy theirs and their families lives. Stop this right now

    9. Gemini
      July 8, 2014 at 12:01 am

      Shadow… You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.


    10. @Abaddon
      November 16, 2014 at 4:40 am

      People are so mislead by this whole “Twin Soul” thing… What everyone fails to see is that not everyone has this connection its extremely rare and I bet my left liver only ten people on this planet has it….

    11. Julieanna
      January 11, 2016 at 9:58 pm

      Indeed. A true twin flame connection is so rare that most of the people claiming it are definitely not in it. There is nothing mediocre about twin flames. It’s the most gut wrenching, maddening, heart opening/ breaking, transformative process anyone has to ever go through and then some. Before you wish for true love- be CAREFUL what you wish for.

    12. Infinite1
      April 14, 2016 at 8:39 pm

      I agree not everyone has this experience, but I do believe it’s real. And I know for a fact my twin has a harvesting entity attached to him, which is also attached to his mother and she despises me because I am full of love, faith and hope.
      I had to break ties w my twin because his mother drained me everytime I was around her and she always made us argue. Anyway, long story short I said to myself if he won’t wake up then I give up and I focus on myself and helping others as I’ve always done.

    13. zoe
      June 1, 2016 at 4:59 am

      I think to identify your twin flame you must have the telepathic elements, and psychic links in evidence. I haven,t seen my twin for some time, but i have discovered that despite that i seem to dream and sense things which are later true to his current situation.I could hear him thinking as if he were speaking out loud at times when i was in the same public space. I have had to let go, i no longer hope to be together, but hope that he recognises what it is one day, he is off doing some work. I met this person briefly when he was a child and had a premonition about him and could see him as an adult in my minds eye. i know now that the twin flame thing is not bullshit, just that a lot of people try to make something into it, when as you say, it is rare, a blessing and a curse.

    14. 11.11
      June 1, 2016 at 12:09 pm

      For this man TWIN FLAMES are real. Imagine that when just a young boy who dreamed of a woman, her first name, statue, hair, eyes & then in his early teenage years we meet in school, only they weren’t close or friends back then. The closest they got was in Maths class. That’s when he knew & still till this day I can’t explain why. Writing this now the energy that flows throughout my body is because of her & I don’t know where or what she’s doing now for I fucked up & so did she. She is still the most remarkable woman I’ve ever fallen in love with. Yes she drove me wild like never before. So? What man & woman doesn’t on occasion. We both know where we went wrong. Me more than her & that’s me admitting that. Twenty years later we fell in love & WOW nothing has ever come close to what I felt, I believe she felt the same & she may have changed her mind now BUT it is real. We knew what the other was thinking, rang at exactly the same time! 11.11 is a time that somehow we’d call each other on at that precise minute. That amazes me. Last night out I gazed down it was 1.11am…..Why did I have to proclaim out loud what that meant for me. It’s YOU. The love I was showered with make me a humble man these days. That connection is something that most of us never ever will feel. It wasn’t a ride in the park I’ll admit. That’s because of what I didn’t do right & I’ve learnt from this. Hardest lesson so far & one of the few regrets I have. It’s not stopping from me being happy in life. Neither of us broke each other. We opened our souls up & release all the trauma & past pains which I didn’t filter properly. She wasn’t my counsellor & I understand that. Trying to stop the flow was hat we both did. See we helped each other bring forth & released this negativity. Am I wrong in this train of thought? We hurt each other. That’s on me. I’m quite happy to take the fall for that’s what I’ll always do for once in love I’ll give my all which might not seem enough to some yet I do trust in love overcomes all. Infinite1 was right too. I’ve discussed with my mother that she causes me much distress which my better half then wore the brunt of my sudden anxiety. I’m sorry. I don’t let her get away with doing this to me now & have spoken as a loving son does to his mother. What a difference it’s made. It helps that now I think before I speak so my lips don’t talk shit! I’ll regret seconded later. I have changed for it’s the first time I’ve put me first in life now. I’ve been by myself since & learnt to love myself entirely & be at peace with this. Serenity. My life is now of enjoying every moment & not the limelight, fancy lights whatever. I would happily spend eternity with her. Is it wrong to want the normality of a long term relationship, not just the limitless passion that was our natural chemistry that existed. I always wonder if she thought he loves the idea & the honeymoon period only. No I love it. What I love more is the dream of learning each other & growing together falling in love that bit more every sunrise. These so called adventures we all want to do for me is doing them with you in the years we have left on this planet we call home. Earth. Home is where he heart is & it’s within us now, it’s everywhere. What we breathe, feel, inhale, hear & taste(so good;) is all around us.

      I see so many posts that look familiar, even I wonder if she believes I’ve written it & no I can guarantee you I haven’t. I never asked much of you & the One request I asked so we wouldn’t be here writing now you won’t do & you know why I won’t for I did so many times. I wish you could see this. Maybe you do. Maybe. I’ve balanced the flame from where I stand & it’s safe to touch for the warmth is now a constant temperature. I’ve learnt to tend to the fire that is my soul. Which is me showing to the universe my eternal desire for the woman I meet in my dreams at the age of eight & the love for we shared was no mere coincidence? It was destined to be. Fate we could say? Then how come thirty years later we entwined as Two Souls in the purest form of True Love.

      Infinity O

      • KAT
        April 4, 2017 at 9:38 am

        Your post realky hit me, you wrote the words i wish my twin flame would speak to me. Iike a mirroring of what i have been going through and i pray we will reunite and make it through this phase. It has triggered behaviors within myself that i cant understand why, where is the energy coming from. Its like its something outside of myself that take over and i get caught up in the moment and it like a hellfire. The aftermath once the dust settles, the love is still there. The hurt is the pain that seems to stay in the undercurrent.
        I searched my whole life for him, the more signs that i received (hearts, 11:11, yin yang energy) the more i had to be dure it wasnt another trick, false love, distraction, trickster energy again.

        Love Sick Dragon

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