That sad sack manipulative bullshit is annoying. Doing that stuff repetively makes the other person turn a blind eye after awhile.
If you’re so unhappy and throw yourself into a dramatic and angsty fit, then why stick around? You can’t control someone else by turning on the waterworks when it doesn’t go your way. The only person responsible for your own happiness is yourself.
It’s attractive to have your shit together, not act like your life depends on someone else.