I’ve learned that if there is a fantasy component to a relationship, one or both people may not be emotionally available for a reality based relationship.
It’s easy to point the finger, but unless people stand before one another, commit and follow through, it’s a moot point.
I see some dramatic letters here, but do you realize what real commitment is? It’s getting along and not fighting over stupid shit. It’s not a power play. It’s working together in the daily grind of the hum drum.
“Love” is so over romanticized. If you project that butterflies and rainbows and expectations on someone else, chances are you’re in for a rude awakening.