• Think

    by  • March 1, 2014 • * Safe for Work *, Advice • 6 Comments

    While I understand the idea that some people feel compelled to help or force feed their theories or advice to others please think first. Did they ask? While I also understand that putting thoughts in public are subject to whatever, if your true intention is helping, you might actually be doing the opposite.

    People come here for many reasons. Some people come not because they are blaming or attacking “their person”, but because they are trying to gain introspection, release negative feelings, etc in order to be healthy. Sometimes when force fed “help” the person will rebel because they are not “there yet”. It can stall a person’s progress. Despite what you may think, there are highly intelligent and self aware people here. Not everyone is asking for your two cents. I do appreciate comments but I notice I am more inclined to listen if they are respectful and don’t claim to completely understand my situation.

    Respect. Boundaries. Please. A little kindness can go very far. Thank you for reading and have a good day.

    6 Responses to Think

    1. Smiles
      March 3, 2014 at 2:44 pm

      Someone likes to be in control.

    2. author
      March 3, 2014 at 5:41 pm

      Personally I find it fun when not in control. But you wouldn’t know that.

    3. Right.
      March 3, 2014 at 11:59 pm

      And guess who is writing half these negative, mean letters?

      Yeah, take a guess.

      Jimmy knows.


    4. author
      March 4, 2014 at 5:40 am

      Starski and Hutch? LOL. Rockford Files was great. Magnum P.I. was a favorite.

    5. Smiles again
      March 6, 2014 at 6:51 pm


    6. author
      March 10, 2014 at 10:35 am

      There’s nothing to “know” when you don’t know people personally.

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