• Memory

    by  • September 25, 2013 • * Safe for Work *, Lost Love • 2 Comments

    I really messed up things when it came to us. At the time I was too dense to realize all the times you tried to tell me how it hurt you how I talked to your friends or how it hurt you that we didn’t talk as much as you would like or how I would go days without talking to you or how much you actually cared about me and how you wanted us to be together.

    Don’t get me wrong I wanted to be with you too but it wouldn’t have worked then but now things are different and it would but unfortunately you just stopped talking to me all together.

    I was too absorbed in myself at the time but do you remember when you asked me who my favorite person was? I said “You, and always you” it’s been 3 years and I still mean it. I didn’t take a chance at the time to be with you because I thought it wouldn’t work out, now I see you with this new guy and I know he treats you right, but I can’t help but feel that if we were together, I would be the best you ever had.

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    2 Responses to Memory

    1. female
      September 25, 2013 at 11:09 am

      Hi. Don’t know your entire situation but have been the female in a similar predicament. If your person is happy right where she is I would gently suggest to leave her be. Truth is, you had your shot and for whatever reason it didn’t work out. It’s fantastic that you feel you have grown and understand what happened in the past. And it’s understandable to have regrets. But unless this woman is willing and wanting to 100% give you another shot, then reaching out to her will screw with her mind and is actually selfish on your part. (IF she’s happy with the other guy). Also, let’s say you guys give it another try and it doesn’t work out again. How would you feel if she regretted leaving her current man? Sometimes love means to let go and know they love someone else but are happier with them and not you. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, just that maybe they are more compatible. Just my 2 cents – take it for what it’s worth. Good luck.


    2. @female
      September 26, 2013 at 10:44 am

      Yes & No to your comment. As a male I learnt like we all do from the past. I had regrets, not now once I accepted the truths of who they weren’t & for who they really were. I will always love them to a degree for once unconditional love is given freely then it is forever? I’m not angry, or even upset, I can smile these days for my heart isn’t resting on my sleeve anymore for I’ve noticed more & more, in today’s society,too many people wear mask’s & those people that are authentic are easily spotted & are usually the one’s that end up hurting more than the other party(which we have allowed to a certain degree for love is blind) & those once loving people protect themselves with what they learnt from the masked one & in turn become all that more similar to the other. Because I withhold my love now, I have attracted more & more women for I’m now more of a challenge. Still a happy outgoing funny man, just very hard to tame. I’m trying to not be like this yet I have now one fear in life…”being hurt so emotionally by one we love”. I have died many a time & death doesn’t scare me. Love does lol.



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