• Why mess with my head and heart?

    by  • September 23, 2013 • * Safe for Work *, Confusion • 2 Comments

    I just don’t understand why you’d do what you did. You flirt with me and try to hang out with me all the time. Then when I tell you I like you, you say you’re too confused and haven’t known me long enough. Which would be fine if you didn’t flirt with me right after, then hug and kiss me right before gathering your things and literally running away. Now you won’t even say hi to me when you see me and seem to be avoiding me. Why would you do that? Do you know how much that hurts me? I’m willing to hang out as friends, which you seemed to want, but now you’re avoiding me after messing with my head. I didn’t make things confusing, but you sure are and it really is hurting me.

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    2 Responses to Why mess with my head and heart?

    1. From the other side
      September 23, 2013 at 12:05 pm

      Hi Author- Maybe I can help because I have been accused of some of this before myself. When I feel comfortable with someone, my natural personality is flirty. I don’t mean anything by it other than that I am happy and comfortable to be around that person. I am sorry to say that it has been misinterpreted many times and it always surprises me and makes me sad that I somehow led the person on just by being how I am. When I was younger I probably avoided the person after they told me they wanted more because I felt awkward and bad that I didn’t want the same thing and also because I didn’t know how to act differently with them. As I got a little older, I tried acting like nothing had changed and still tried to keep up the same relationship with them but they ended up ignoring me or treating me badly or like I was no longer a woman… I don’t think there is any winning. From the other side, I have had my heartbroken so many times because I wouldn’t be more than a friend. So just so you know, the hurt goes both ways. Good luck to you.


    2. Don't take this seriously
      September 23, 2013 at 4:20 pm

      Punch them in the face



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