Dear You… and all the others,
Why did you have to do that? Every single time I get close to a guy who I think is a great friend BAM there it is… Will you go out with me? Will you be my girlfriend? Can I kiss you? WHAT?!
I don’t get it. Why can’t I just have friends that happen to be guys without it going THERE? Is it a crime to not want to have a boyfriend? I enjoy the company of guys my age but I DON’T want a relationship. I want a friend! Just because I’m nice to you and hang out with you does NOT mean I want to date you.
I am not leading you on. I just want a friend and every single time I think I have one, the same thing happens. No matter how much I apologize and no matter nice I am about it, explaining that I don’t want a boyfriend, I lose you. You treat me like a girl that you went out with that you broke up with and when I try to keep things the way they were, it doesn’t work. It doesn’t matter how long we’ve been friends or how close we are. I lose. Why can’t we just be friends?
I can’t take it anymore. I just want a friend that I can count on. I thought that was you. Apparently I was wrong… again.
Your Ex Best Friend