Someone I cared deeply about reconnected with me a few year ago. We starting spending time together and mushy stuff came up. The only thing was, I was deep into a relationship. It was heading south at the time they came back into my life but they ‘didn’t want to be part of the breakup’. They have told me now to leave them alone in so many ways. Mind you, we have been friends for over 5 years. Was it because I did not end my relationship yet? They won’t admit it, but we both know that’s why. They made it very clear they did not want to be a reason for the break up, they didn’t want any part of it, and yet they are mad now because the situation is still not resolved. Aint that somethin?