• Dear Pat:

    by  • August 7, 2013 • * Safe for Work *, Love - Pure and Simple • 3 Comments

    I’ve managed to run into some different feelings for you over the course of the last two months. You are on my mind all the time, & every time I see you throughout the day I want to grab you & kiss you. The whole situation is making me miserable.
    I’ve been trying to make those feelings go away because I don’t see how it could ever work, and it sucks, and I hate it. And there is your explanation of my changes. I’m seriously conflicted. And it’s hard.
    I know you like me too, I’ve noticed the things you’ve been doing that came straight from a website when you Googled How To Flirt. Haha. Yes, I caught on. And it’s cute.
    I guess in reality it doesn’t need to be this complicated, you want to be with me, I want to be with you, yet neither one of us has made the move. I’ve tried a couple times. And chickened out. I don’t know what to do any more. Or how to feel. Or what to think. I do know there is something between us. And maybe we should talk about this before we both lose.

    3 Responses to Dear Pat:

    1. tricia
      August 7, 2013 at 9:28 pm

      I strongly suggest you talk to this person.. Find that inner strength and ditch the chicken. 🙂

    2. Lucy Van Pelt
      August 8, 2013 at 7:11 pm

      Thanks, Tricia. I know I should, I just don’t have it in me to throw it all out there like that…which is why I wrote this letter. It made me feel a little better LOL I am going to hold out for him to bring it up to me. And if he never does, I guess I was wrong & it’s not meant to be.

    3. Bridge
      August 8, 2013 at 10:24 pm

      Lucy… Throwing it all out there was the best thing I ever did. I’m not saying it’s necessarily right for you, but it changed my life massively for the better. I think your last statement about needing to talk about it is very revealing. It could be that he/she is waiting for you to broach the subject the same way you are waiting for he/she to. It would be sad if you wasted your time not talking to each other if it is something you both desperately want. Even if it’s something only you desperately want.

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