I have to tell you. I never expected to see you today….though I knew it was POSSIBLE..
On the other hand, pretty sure that’s why Jane decided to meander w/ me today. Hoping to see you, hoping to not see you.
She cut our afternoon short.
I have an opinion.
Imagine my surprise when she told me today that you and her have been talking. Seen each other a bit. Really not sure I believe it’s JUST that.
I will share with you exactly what I shared with her this afternoon.
No one will move forward if this keeps going like this.
You know I would support you staying with WIFE or choosing Jane.
But STOP walking the line.
Jane is not moving forward because of this. She’s STUCK. She’s WAITING for you.
I have figured for the last few months this was so. Sometimes NOT having the conversation speaks volumes.
Jane deserves a solid decision. Just as Wife does.
I have been so torn today. Between trying to be the patient understanding friend and tearing you a new one.
I KNOW it’s not my business.
I KNOW I should butt out.
I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW.
I suppose I should be ok w/ seeing Jane hold on to whatever hope you’re dangling.
I suppose I should be ok thinking that Wife is thinking things are going swimmingly . That perhaps you both will live happily every after.
Man up Jack.
Be honest w/ your therapist.
Be honest w/ yourself.
Whichever one it is, it’s going to hurt like hell for the other one.
But least all three of you can move on with life.