I’ve been on and off this site for about four-five months I think. In that time I’ve learned some things, and exorcised my demons. Right now I’m in the process of healing some things from my past that went on for a very long time and have only recently come to grips with. I’m sure many of you can relate.
During my time here I’ve read sad things, hopeful things, angry things, and people like myself just trying to make sense of things; to heal. But I’ve also seen disturbing things. I have been mistaken time and time again for different people who are not merely responding to me to work out their issues. They are now threatening things that have nothing to do with me.
So to all you people who may be different or one in the same:
The lady who thinks I am their male “friend”
The person who says nasty things on almost everyone’s letters
And to whomever else thinks I was their person (and BTW you’ve done it to numerous people, not just me):
Hi. My name is Kasey. I’m married (with kids) and my husband knows about this site but doesn’t participate in it. I do not know anyone here personally. And I’m done with being any part to your delusions. I am no longer “anonymous”. I’m done with being lashed at for just releasing my own thoughts on this site – (something that it was intended for) – just because you think I’m your cheating ex or whatever the case may be. Some of you are abusive.
Someone here said how easy it was to be that way (a bully, etc) because you can hide behind a wall of anonymity. They are right. So how about it? Who wants to reveal themselves? Or better yet, who wants to admit to themselves they saw what they wanted to see for their own justifications? Things aren’t always what they seem. And it might just be the only one fucking with you and playing mindgames is yourself.