It really comes down to what you want and what the other person wants. If it’s eachother then you would make the necessary changes to make it a reality. It wouldn’t happen “someday” and it wouldn’t turn into half truths and mindgames. It wouldn’t happen when one person has “had enough” and it shouldn’t happen when one person has already walked out the door.
Everyone has a choice. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. If you get taken for granted or your needs aren’t met then it’s up to you to speak up or step away. If the other person treats you badly then why are you letting them? A relationship is more likely to work if you stand up for yourself and not allow yourself to be a doormat. And if you’re the asshole in the scenerio, it all comes back around in the end. It may take some time, but it always does.
And don’t get me started on love triangles. Waste of time. It’s not fair to the people you are playing who don’t have all the necessary info to make an informed decision. You hurt people unnecessarily. For what? A fucking backup plan? An ego boost? Fucking stupid. You know what a complicated situation is? AN EXCUSE. I’ve been there. I KNOW.
You want to lash out at me? You want to be in denial? Go ahead. See for yourself. I’m sure you’ll be THE ONE who’s story ends differently. HA! Live and learn.
This isn’t meant for you, or you or you, or whomever thinks it’s for them. But if you see yourself in this and it strikes a nerve, think about it. Long and hard. It might save you a world of pain. Unless that’s what feeds you. And that’s a whole other ball of bullshit…