I come here once in a while to read peoples letters, since I discovered it (at a time when I needed it most) but I swear some of you have been here for like years dealing with the same issues over and over again. I guess it is the meeting place, for the venters, the broken hearted, the delusional, and the curious ones. Truth be told, if you have been here for over a year and are still venting or dealing with the very same issues. You need more than this site. Is this site, and your writing cathartic or an addiction for you? Part of healing is not dwelling on problems, but finding solutions. Some people here dwell on their pain and obsess about it. Indeed they have become their pain.I will not judge, but ask yourself this… If for over a year I have been coming here, writing about the same issues over and over but with a slight twist, and I still have not got ahead of my problems, is this working for me?.
Am I still obsessing about that one guy or woman who does not seem to want me, or care anymore. Am I over analyzing her/his actions. Am I attributing her/his silence or her/his or avoiding me to shyness or misunderstanding or some sort of twisted feeling of passion. Really??? Avoiding you equals disinterest. End of story!Past the over-analyzing of your situation lies a delusion…which makes you make the wrong choices outside this site and in real life.
Stop! Get out of here for a minute, get a hold of yourself…but most of all get real… (Don’t get mad. One is allowed to vent, just be real about your life. Just food for your thoughts)