• Advice

    by  • December 1, 2012 • * Safe for Work *, Advice • 3 Comments

    My ex wants to meet up soon. Not as a date, but just to catch up, see what’s been going on with each other. I really want to, but our break-up was really hard for me, and I’m afraid of what my reaction to seeing him and hearing his voice again might be. Advice?

    Related Post

    3 Responses to Advice

    1. December 1, 2012 at 8:08 pm

      Life is short. You’ll regret it if you don’t meet up. If things go well, that’s wonderful. If not, at least you won’t have any regrets or wonder “what if?”


    2. J
      December 1, 2012 at 9:23 pm

      Hey, I’m in the same boat. Honestly, I think it’s totally healthy for you to see him. It might help to give you some closure/feel better about the situation. It could suck, it could be great, but you’ll never know how it’ll be until you see him. I’d say you should meet up with him. Just know what you want/know where your boundaries are. I’ll probably do the same soon too. Good luck!


    3. Simply S
      December 4, 2012 at 6:09 pm

      When enough time goes by, it’s easy to forget the bad and remember the good. If that’s what you want to remember. Personally speaking only, I’ve never had a good experience with an ex. I’ve never been able to stay just friends. Things always creep up. Resentments come back or they want to try to rekindle what was once lost. Exes are exes for a reason. Every time I have forgotten that rule, I’ve regretted it.
      If you do decide to see them, maintain boundaries and don’t live in the past. You won’t ever find your future in your past. Good luck! 🙂



    Leave a Reply