fuck me
by admin • July 25, 2012 • Confusion • 25 Comments
My brother called me a prudish bitch because i’m 15 and i haven’t had sex yet but i obvi want 2 soo should i be like a friend with benifit or shud i wait for a long relationship??
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Don’t give into the hormones. Trust me. It isn’t worth it.
You are worth so much more than that.
hun, wait until it feels right. listen to your inner voice. it might sound dumb now but its what truly feels right that counts. so listen to yourself. don’t listen to others. and you’ll never have regrets
Being a virgin doesn’t make you a “prudish bitch” in any way. Having sex for sport because your brother calls you names is absurd. If it happens, it happens, but don’t actively seek it out for “status.” Hang on to your childhood just a little bit longer because once you let it go, you never get it back.
Wait. If your brother getting to you through his ridiculous comments is in any way speeding up the process of you wanting to have sex, you are so not ready. Sex is serious and so are the consequences.
brother is an IDIOT! Good for you that you are smarter then him. Yes, wait until it feels right to you and don’t give in to what other people say.
You’re 15?! I wasn’t even thinking about sex at 15. I was acting my age, having slumber parties, writing notes to my friends. Why do you want to have sex so badly?! It’s not that great when it’s not with someone you love. Save yourself for someone you know you love. Maybe not marriage, but just wait. Why waste your first time in some 15 year old who won’t know what they’re doing, and leaving you asking “That’s it? That’s what I’ve been wanting?!”
Do not cave in to that. Sex complicates your life in so many ways. Concentrate on being 15 and being young. I am no prude and in fact I lost my virginity when I was 15 and I can say I was way too young to handle everything that goes with it.
Don’t listen to anyone else except your own inner voice. Stay true to yourself and you will know when the time is right.
I have 3 younger brothers and a younger sister, so if I could give you some advise from an older sister point of view: Do what you feel most comfortable with. If you feel stupid in a “friends with benefits” situation, than it’s not for you and that’s fine. If you want a relationship, than wait for a person that you are comfortable with. Sex is a really personal thing, and everyone experiences it differently, especially the first time.
If I can give you my very honest opinion: wait for a good person to be in a relationship with for. Your first time is special, but can be awkward, so it should be with someone you are comfortable with. 15 is still pretty young. You have a lot of time to experience all of that. When you’re comfortable with a situation you’ll know. Don’t worry about what other people think. Worry about you, and what will make you happy at the end of the day.
I mean, if you feel ready it is your choice in the long run. BUT let me just tell you this, don’t just fuck anyone you see… you don’t want to be seen as that kinda person. And you will end up regretting it years down the road. And don’t let ANYONE even your brother pressure you into thinking you need to have sex before you are ready. It is your body, your life, and your virginity. If you don’t want to give that away yet, then don’t.
whoa, dude, sex is special. it’s not something that should be done lightly, because if you don’t respect it you’ll lose respect for yourself. you’re 15, friend, what’s your hurry?
one big question: do you respect yourself, your body and your mind?
–friend
You are only 15. Don’t worry about creating an expectation for someone, you’ll know when you’re ready to take that step, whether it be with a long term boyfriend or a friend. Trust your instincts and know that you don’t NEED to do anything on a timeline, you have plenty of time left to experience a number of things.
DON’T UNLESS YOUR READY? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE!!?!
YOUR 15, YOU ARE A MINOR AND WAY WAY WAY TOO YOUNG, DON’T LISTEN TO THAT KIND OF CRAP, NEXT TIME SOMEONE PRESSURES YOU..CALL THEM OUT
First of all, your brother is a childish asshole. Kudos to you though for asking for advice on the situation here, there are many wonderful people on this website. Secondly, your asking for advice shows that you have a good head on your shoulders. I started having sex at 14, I live with that regret that I should have waited everyday of my life. Your body may be saying “i’m ready!”, but the majority of the time, your heart isn’t ready for something of that magnitude. Wait for the right guy to come along. wait until you’re ready. It’s your body, not your brothers. You don’t want to end up pregnant at 15, or worse have an std you’ll never get rid of, then one day meet the guy of your dreams and you can’t be with him because you might risk giving him said disease.
holy cow… am i the only person in this place planning to wait till marriage?
why the fuck would your brother give you shit for being a virgin. If i had a sister i’d be proud of her.
I didn’t lose my virginity until i was 19. Best decision i ever made, waiting until i was ready. No regrets to this day.
don’t let anyone here judge you. you DO NOT have to wait until marriage. if you want to, that’s your choice. waiting or not waiting won’t make you any better or worse. everyone makes their own decisions, so NEVER feel bad about anything you do because of how other people feel about it. this is your life, not theirs.
i think you should wait. i was younger than 15, and while i wish i could say i don’t regret it, i do. i wish with every fiber of my being that i hadn’t given in so easily. the guy loved me, at least.
whatever you do, wait for someone that you fully and truly love. it’ll be a million times more worth it than if you did someone just for sake of having sex.
funny thing about virginity: once you lose it, you can’t get it back. soooo. who you gona give it to? someone you’ll only be with for a few months, or a couple years tops? orrr your future spouse? i’m not your parent, or your brother, i’m just a “stranger”, but i still care about you and don’t want you to make a mistake.
–thinkaboutit
Do what you feel is right, if you want to wait for the right person go right ahead. If you feel you can go and just give it to anyone then go ahead but don’t live with what if’s and regrets. Do what your body, mind and heart wants. Don’t ever let anyone pressure you into doing something you are not sure about. Speaking from experience…
Take care
Blue
So, personally I waited a little longer than many do these days. I was 18 when I lost my virginity. It was with a guy who was one of my best friends at the time. Although we no longer speak, I definitely don’t regret having sex, but I think I should have waited for a real relationship before giving in.
<3 Adelaide
Someday I hope to have that real relationship, where the sex would be more about making love than just a quick fuck.
So, as a friend, I would say wait for someone special. You will enjoy it more, and then you won’t have any regrets. You don’t have to wait for marriage necessarily, that’s always a personal decision anyway. Your body, heart, and mind must all be in sync for it to be truly magical.
I wish you all the luck and love in the world.
I waited until I was 20 to find someone special to start my sex life and I gave in to an asshole…I still believe is someone right for me out there but the point is not to have too big expections from the start because the disappointment will be bigger.
Trust me honey, I speak from experience. I’m sixteen and I lost it to my first serious boyfriend of 2 years when I was 15. People say, oh you have so much experience now. But that is SO unimportant, really. When I’m older, and even now, the one thing I’m going to wish is that I waited. Knowing your boundaries and ENFORCING them with someone your with is something you need to stand strong about. Virginity is precious. You’d rather be known as the ‘angel’ who is a virgin then then sleazy girl who doesn’t care about who she sleeps with. Please please listen to me, it’s the advice I wish I would have listened to myself. Wait till you know, for sure, it’s worth it. Until you’ve never felt so comfortable with that person you could do anything and not be embarrassed, and that it’s out of love. As lame and cheesy this all sounds, looking back you don’t want to think, why did I do the things I did. You want to be proud of holding your ground. So stay in there babygirl, no matter what people say about it, how casually they make it sound to have sex, it is sacred. Don’t let anyone take it from you. Good luck, dear.
I personally had mine taken from me. And even though I’m with a guy now that respects me completely and knows what I’ve been through, I wish that I could’ve chosen when I wanted to give it away. 7 years old was not the best age.. And 8 years of it was torture.. I personally wish I could’ve kept it till now. Don’t let someone else ruin your life because you let them. Do what you feel like doing, when you feel like doing it. Because in the end, you’re the one that
‘s going to have to deal with it all.
Oh, and I’m only 17. I still don’t think I’d be ready if it had been my decision. So hold onto the one thing that is truly yours.
You’re far too young to be worrying about that. If it happens, it happens, don’t rush it. Don’t be pressured into this just because your brother’s an idiot. The consequences can be harsh, and sex is a very personal thing, especially your first time.
Wait.
What you’re so adamant about getting rid of, is something you will never get back. So, wait for the right time for it.