11 Responses to A Question:

1. Gemini

   July 22, 2012 at 1:36 am

   Days, Weeks, Months, Years… It’s all very specific to the woman, the situation, our dispositions, etc.

   I don’t think there’s truly a “right” or “wrong” time; however, I do know that many women will argue the contrary – so don’t take my word for it.
2. How long?

   July 22, 2012 at 8:35 am

   Not at all, tell them.
3. Anonymous

   July 22, 2012 at 1:18 pm

   Not too long that it ends up being too late.
4. meg

   July 23, 2012 at 12:07 am

   until you know that it’s really love, not the you give me butterflies when we kiss kinda love but the when you’re in the middle of a fight and you think to yourself how much you care for them, or you’d give up the most precious thing in your life for them kind of love. Don’t rush your relationship, you’ll know when it’s right
5. that girl

   July 23, 2012 at 1:46 pm

   Depends on the situation. Follow your heart and what it’s telling you. It’s scary, but at the same time it’s a relief to know how they feel and you don’t have to hold it in anymore. I would agree with Meg. When the time is right…you’ll just know. =)
6. ladyyak

   July 25, 2012 at 1:22 pm

   If you are a man: tell her now.
   If you are a woman: wait, bite your tongue, be patient, NEVER be the one to say it first.
   And if you had sex before three months were up: forget it, that’s lust not love.
   IMO
7. that girl

   July 25, 2012 at 2:24 pm

   Yup, would have to agree with ladyyak. Made that mistake 2x and never again. You’d think I would have learned it the first time…but yeah speaking as a woman it’s best for the man to pursue and not the other way around. At least as a woman, it took me a while to figure it out, but that’s what I want is a man to pursue me and not the other way around..I don’t want to pursue myself.
8. that girl

   July 25, 2012 at 2:24 pm

   Wishing you the best though in whatever you decide.
9. Kate

   August 1, 2012 at 10:23 am

   You might not have a tomorrow to say it, say it when it feels right.
10. Veghead13

    August 1, 2012 at 10:26 pm

    I know for me, it just literally slipped out one night. But I had been feeling it and apparently so did he. =)
11. Author

    August 2, 2012 at 1:22 pm

    I feel like that’s the way it’ll happen. I’m going to let it slip out by accident. But perhaps he will feel the same.