What the hell is wrong with you all?!?
You all saw what was going on, why’d you make jokes?
Haha it’s so fucking hilarious that Adrian is a pervert and oogles young women when he’s a married man!
Aunt Nicki why the hell did you say NOTHING?!? He’s your HUSBAND!! You SAW us. You saw with your own eyes that he was abusing me, the only time you acted was in the car remember? You sat between us and gave me a sat smile and a pat on the knee. You saw, you knew, but you didn’t help…
Mum, you stood behind me while he hugged me and grabbed my ass! Why the hell didn’t you say something? “Get your hands off my daughter” would have been good!
None of you even knew what had already happened but then as I was thinking this shouldn’t be happening and it was wrong you all basically stood on his side. You taught a 12 year old girl that everything he was doing was okay.
Mum, Lyle, Nicki, Ray, Dave, Pam, Jan. You all heard him. You all heard him talk about my body in a lewd way. You heard him and you said nothing. Where was the “what the hell are you saying that’s your niece?”? Where was the “how would you know what she’s like down there?”?
Lyle I thought better of you. You protected me from Mike when you found out he was a sexual predator. You made the distance between us so evident that I freaked out and that was the only way I found out what you saw on his laptop. Lyle I still love you and all but how did you do nothing? Did he touch you too? I must say things did get worse when you left… But how could you not notice when you heard me climbing into the wardrobe when you were literally across the hall??
I’m so hurt that no one stepped up and helped me when it was damn obvious. My grades were awful when I was a straight A student! Did none of you care? Did none of you think you should make this stop? And that was just what he did in front of you!
None of you opened your eyes. None of you even noticed when he’d touch me in a room full of all of you! Over the years at the family reunions he got more and more bold, not just with what he said. None of you noticed him touching me in front of all of you!
He rubbed my legs and between them with all of you in the room. I was even talking to some of you at the time, it wasn’t even discreet like under a table or something. All of you just chose not to look, not to say. You just joked that he was a perv.
It hurts, I’ve gone over and over what HE did and I’m getting there, but I’m struggling with what all of you did NOT do. I know it’s not all your fault, I know I should have said something too, when I was thinking about it though I had no idea what to do and all of it got worse to which you were witnesses to.
I still love you all, you’re my family.