I’m a sexually insecure bi man in his early twenties, and while i’ve slept with multiple partners of both gender i’ve never climaxed and never really enjoyed myself.
Part of this is me not really knowing what i’m doing, but part of it is dulled sensitivity or something.
I don’t even enjoy the sensation of oral sex, which I understand is quite weird for a guy. The whole process feels awkward for me.
I want to gain more confidence in myself as a sexual person and my abilities in the bedroom.
But the idea of one night stands doesn’t appeal to me anymore
And i’m too insecure and shy to get really close to anybody again, my last 2 partners left me for other people shortly after our first sexual encounter and I can’t deal with that again. It really fucking hurt.
So does anybody have any advice they could give me?
Not with sex tips, but a more long term course of action! Help!